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Registry Guide

The Ultimate Baby Registry Guide

Everything you actually need for your baby — from the must-haves to the products you can confidently skip.

Nursery essentials for a baby registry

I remember staring at my registry checklist at two in the morning, convinced I needed seventeen swaddle blankets and a wipe warmer. I didn't. What I actually needed was a lot shorter than any list I found online — so I made the one I wish I'd had. No 200-item overwhelm, just what you'll really use, what's worth borrowing, and what you can skip. — Anahely

Our Method

The By Anahely Registry Method

Essential

Most families use this every day.

Worth It

Helpful for many families.

Lifestyle Choice

Depends on your home and routine.

Borrow

Useful, but only for a short season.

Skip

Save your money.

01

Transportation

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
Infant Car SeatEssential
Convertible Car SeatWorth It
Lightweight StrollerEssential
WagonLifestyle
Car MirrorLifestyle
Quick tipAlways buy car seats new — never secondhand — since crash history and expiration dates affect safety. Everything else here can wait or be borrowed.

02

Sleep

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
BassinetWorth It
CribEssential
Crib MattressEssential
Sleep SacksEssential
Swaddle BlanketsWorth It
White Noise MachineWorth It
Baby MonitorWorth It
Quick tipBuy the mattress new — firmness matters for safe sleep. The crib and monitor should be new too; everything else can be borrowed if it's clean and recall-free.

03

Feeding

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
BottlesEssential
Burp ClothsEssential
Nursing PillowWorth It
Breast PumpWorth It
Bottle WarmerLifestyle
High ChairWorth It
BibsEssential
Quick tipBuy one or two bottle brands first — babies are picky. Skip the high chair for now; it's not needed until solids start around 6 months. Pump parts should never be shared, even sterilized.

04

Diapering

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
DiapersEssential
WipesEssential
Changing PadEssential
Diaper PailWorth It
Diaper BagWorth It
Wipe WarmerSkip
Quick tipDon't stockpile newborn-size diapers — most babies size up within weeks. A few packs of size 1 and 2 will serve you better.

05

Clothing

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
OnesiesEssential
SleepersEssential
Swaddle BlanketsEssential
Hats & MittensWorth It
Going-Home OutfitLifestyle
Quick tipGently used clothing is completely fine here — it's not safety equipment. 7–10 onesies and sleepers in newborn size is plenty.

06

Nursery

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
CribEssential
DresserWorth It
Glider / Rocking ChairLifestyle
Blackout CurtainsWorth It
NightlightWorth It
Quick tipSkip cribs older than 10 years — safety standards change. Everything else here can be borrowed or improvised with furniture you already own.

07

Bath Time

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
Infant TubWorth It
Baby WashEssential
Hooded TowelsWorth It
WashclothsEssential
Bath ThermometerLifestyle
Quick tipLow-stakes category — the infant tub is easy to borrow and sanitize, and a bath thermometer is optional if you're comfortable testing with your elbow.

08

Health & Safety

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
Digital ThermometerEssential
Nail ClippersEssential
Nasal AspiratorEssential
Baby MonitorWorth It
Outlet CoversWorth It
Baby GatesLifestyle
Quick tipThe first three are newborn-stage needs; outlet covers and gates can wait until baby starts moving around, closer to 6 months.

09

Toys & Development

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
Play MatWorth It
RattlesLifestyle
Board BooksWorth It
Activity GymWorth It
TeethersLifestyle
Quick tipNewborns need less stimulation than the baby aisle suggests. A play mat and a few board books cover the early weeks — rattles and teethers can wait.

10

Mom Recovery

ProductRatingBuyBorrowSkip
Postpartum PadsEssential
Peri BottleEssential
Nursing BrasEssential
Belly WrapLifestyle
Comfortable RobeWorth It
Stool SoftenerWorth It
Quick tipThis is the most-forgotten registry category — and the one that matters most for the fourth trimester. Many hospitals send home a peri bottle, so ask before buying a second.

Budget Tips

Spend More
  • Car seat
  • Stroller
  • Crib mattress
  • Baby carrier
Save Money
  • Clothes
  • Decor
  • Toys
  • Bottle warmer
Borrow
  • Bassinet
  • Swing
  • Bouncer
  • Activity center

What You Can Skip

  • Wipe WarmerRoom-temperature wipes are fine, and it's one more thing hogging an outlet.
  • Baby Shoes (for non-walkers)Socks and sleepers do the job until baby is walking.
  • Bulk Diaper Genie RefillsWait to see if you like the pail first.
  • Baby Food MakerA regular blender or fork works just as well.
  • A Big Newborn WardrobeMost babies outgrow it within 2–4 weeks.

FAQs

When should I start my registry?

Around 20–24 weeks gives enough time to research without feeling rushed.

How many bottles do I need?

Start with 2–4 to test your baby's preference before buying a full set.

Should I buy newborn diapers?

A few packs are fine — avoid stockpiling since babies size up fast.

Is a changing table necessary?

No — a changing pad on any dresser works just as well.

Can I buy used baby gear?

Yes, for clothing, toys, and furniture. Avoid used car seats, cribs over 10 years old, and pump parts.

Do I need a bassinet?

Helpful for room-sharing, but not required — a crib nearby works too.

What baby items expire?

Car seats, formula, and some skincare products all have expiration dates worth checking.

How many outfits does a newborn need?

About 7–10 onesies and sleepers, since laundry happens often anyway.

How much should a registry cost?

Focus on "Essential" and "Worth It" items first to keep spending manageable.

When should I pack my hospital bag?

Most providers recommend having it ready by 36 weeks.

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